How Sexy Are You?

#20 Taken Care Of

The sexiest version of you is probably also the cleanest, best-smelling version of you. Remember that hygiene is a big part of your sex appeal.

#19 Know Your Body and Love It

A confident person is the sexiest kind of person. Knowing your body and what you like makes you the definition of sexy.

#18 Can't Please Yourself

It isn’t really sexy for most people to be with someone that can’t please themselves. For some, this is actually a major turn off.

#17 Devil May Care

Having said that, a messy hairdo or a makeup free look can be very sexy. He probably loves the look of you in your PJs at the end of the day just as much as when you’re dressed for a social event.

#16 Close-Eyed Kiss

Closing your eyes when you kiss can be very sweet and innocent. Your partner will probably like your shyness and feel like this is something truly special for you both.

#15 Smile More

We’re all for those “come hither” looks and making bedroom eyes but your sexiest look just might be your smile. A happy person is infinitely more attractive!

#14 All Business

No one likes to feel like they’re on a job interview when they’re really on a date. It’s not sexy to constantly talk about work.

#13 Flirty and Fun

It is sexy when you get to have conversations that engage both you and your partner. If it’s a first date, stick to topics that help you relate to them a little better. If it’s a rough patch in a long-term relationship, stick to something that will get them remembering why they fell for you in the first place.

#12 Trying New Things

You are sexiest to your partner when you have an open mind and show that you actually enjoy being intimate with them. Who knows? It just might take on different forms and locations.

#11 Surprise Sex

Unexpected sex is almost always sexy. Does she have an hour-long lunch break she’ll be coming home for? Is he going to be home early today? Make it happen!

#10 Keeping a Routine

Wonder where the sparks went in your relationship? It probably happened somewhere around the time you started scheduling sex as a weekend-only activity. It’s hard to make sex stop being sexy, but this is definitely one way to do it.

#9 Always Hidden

It’s good to dress modestly but if you’re always covering everything up -- even during intimate moments with your partner -- that’s going to become a serious problem after a while.

#8 On Display

On the other hand, dressing too provocatively can make you look very cheap. Few things say “I don’t value myself” louder than someone that has their body completely on display. Ladies, THIS IS NOT SEXY.

#7 Lady in the Streets

There is nothing sexier to a man than a woman that can leave some mystery with the way she dresses but then show it all off for his eyes only when he gets her alone.

#6 At a Distance

Staying at a distance or avoiding touching your partner altogether will make you seem cold and uninterested. Remember that most of what we say is non-verbal communication so close the gap already!

#5 Contact

One of the sexiest moments is when you cross the barrier of touch with your partner. Gently caress his arm and give him a flirty look. Move your hand to the center of her back as you walk with her. They won’t be able to resist.

#4 Touchy Feely

Your partner will like that you like to touch them but be careful about how much you do this. Too much contact, especially too early, will make you seem clingy and desperate and there is nothing sexy about that!

#3 You Want Them to Please You

There is a difference between someone that can please themselves but prefers to do so with their partner and someone that can’t. It’s so sexy to be with someone that wants to be with only you even though they don’t actually need you.

#2 Staring Them Down

When you kiss, if you stare at your partner, it quickly goes from being sexy and intimate to creepy and awkward. Remember, eye contact CAN be sexy but be careful not to stare.

#1 Brief Eye Contact

If you maintain brief eye contact just before going in for a kiss, your partner will find this very sexy and inviting. It shows that you mean business and want to enjoy it.