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Discover 10 simple ways to use the Law of Attraction to find and keep your perfect partner!
The Law of Attraction is the Law of Love, so it makes perfect sense that understanding and utilizing these laws would empower to you attract the partner of your dreams. There is nothing that you cannot, be, do or have when you know how to activate and use this unlimited power that lies within you now. Here are 10 ways to use the Law of Attraction to find and keep your perfect mate:
1. Be Positively Clear About What You Want In A Mate
Each "failed" relationship has given you clues about what you want in your ideal partner. The problem is that many women and men focus on the negative instead of the positve - for example,when you say, "I don't want a man who puts his work before the relationship," you are focusing on a man who puts work before love and that is the desire that you are unconsciously sending out through your energy and what you will attract back. The goodnews is, if you know what you don't want, you know what you do want. Your power to create lies in your ability to choose thoughts that are positively clear, so that you tell the Universe exactly what you desire. For example, "I want a man who puts me first and loves me unconditionally." You can tell if your thought or affirmation is positive or negative by the way it makes you feel. If it makes you feel great, it is positive. If it makes you feel bad, it is negative. It's that simple! If you find yourself thinking negative thoughts, simply turn them around and start focusing on the positive. You will immediately feel better and you will be in alignment with love.
Each "failed" relationship has given you clues about what you want in your ideal partner. The problem is that many women and men focus on the negative instead of the positve - for example,when you say, "I don't want a man who puts his work before the relationship," you are focusing on a man who puts work before love and that is the desire that you are unconsciously sending out through your energy and what you will attract back. The goodnews is, if you know what you don't want, you know what you do want. Your power to create lies in your ability to choose thoughts that are positively clear, so that you tell the Universe exactly what you desire. For example, "I want a man who puts me first and loves me unconditionally." You can tell if your thought or affirmation is positive or negative by the way it makes you feel. If it makes you feel great, it is positive. If it makes you feel bad, it is negative. It's that simple! If you find yourself thinking negative thoughts, simply turn them around and start focusing on the positive. You will immediately feel better and you will be in alignment with love.
2. If You Can Dream It
If you are ready for love, one of the best things you can do is get lost in day dreaming about your perfect mate. I know that most of us have been told to stop day dreaming and to live in the present. It is true that unconscious day dreaming is usually non-productive and unless we are really conscious as we day dream, chances are we are day dreaming about something we don't want or something we wished we had done differently. This is not the type day dreaming that will help you find love. The type of day-dreaming that will activate the law of attraction is consciously imagining what you desire most for your future. As you imagine your ideal partner, the Universe is receiving these images as information and indicators of what to create in your life. You can try on anything in your imagination and keep improving it until it meets your highest ideal. Once your imagination or day-dream pleases and excites you, you can re-play it over and over until one day soon you find yourself actually living it. The power of your imagination is unstoppable and can bring you untold riches, success and love.
If you are ready for love, one of the best things you can do is get lost in day dreaming about your perfect mate. I know that most of us have been told to stop day dreaming and to live in the present. It is true that unconscious day dreaming is usually non-productive and unless we are really conscious as we day dream, chances are we are day dreaming about something we don't want or something we wished we had done differently. This is not the type day dreaming that will help you find love. The type of day-dreaming that will activate the law of attraction is consciously imagining what you desire most for your future. As you imagine your ideal partner, the Universe is receiving these images as information and indicators of what to create in your life. You can try on anything in your imagination and keep improving it until it meets your highest ideal. Once your imagination or day-dream pleases and excites you, you can re-play it over and over until one day soon you find yourself actually living it. The power of your imagination is unstoppable and can bring you untold riches, success and love.
3. Fall In Love With Yourself
You can't expect someone else to fall in love with you if you are not in love with yourself. When we judge or criticize ourselves, we send out an energy that detracts others. Judgment and criticism are negative energies and all negative energies repel. Self love on the other hand is attractive and therefore attracts others to us. Love yourself and the world will love you too! Make a list of 10 things you love about yourself and put this list where you can see it everyday. These ten things can be anything from I'm kind to animals to I have sexy feet. It doesn't really matter what is on the list as long as it easily generates good feelings that you have toward yourself. The more you focus on what you love about yourself, the more self love you will experience and as you fall in love with yourself, others will fall in love with you to, simply because it feels great to be around people who love themselves.
You can't expect someone else to fall in love with you if you are not in love with yourself. When we judge or criticize ourselves, we send out an energy that detracts others. Judgment and criticism are negative energies and all negative energies repel. Self love on the other hand is attractive and therefore attracts others to us. Love yourself and the world will love you too! Make a list of 10 things you love about yourself and put this list where you can see it everyday. These ten things can be anything from I'm kind to animals to I have sexy feet. It doesn't really matter what is on the list as long as it easily generates good feelings that you have toward yourself. The more you focus on what you love about yourself, the more self love you will experience and as you fall in love with yourself, others will fall in love with you to, simply because it feels great to be around people who love themselves.
4. Say No To Jealousy
When you see couples in love, bless them - and say "that's for me too!" It's natural to feel jealous when we see someone experiencing something that we desire and don't have, but jealousy will actually keep love from coming to you. Being jealous is a negative emotion and anything negative will repel what you desire. Instead of feeling jealous, understand that if you are seeing someone else living your dream, your dream is getting closer. So instead of being jealous, celebrate the love you see and bless all the loving relationships that you witness. In this way, you are telling the Universe to bring you some of that! And it will!
When you see couples in love, bless them - and say "that's for me too!" It's natural to feel jealous when we see someone experiencing something that we desire and don't have, but jealousy will actually keep love from coming to you. Being jealous is a negative emotion and anything negative will repel what you desire. Instead of feeling jealous, understand that if you are seeing someone else living your dream, your dream is getting closer. So instead of being jealous, celebrate the love you see and bless all the loving relationships that you witness. In this way, you are telling the Universe to bring you some of that! And it will!
5. Don't Give Up.
The number one reason the law of attraction may appear not to work is that people give up before their wish is granted. It's like ordering a delcious vanilla milk-shake and walking out of the dinner prior to your order arriving. The order is on its way, but if you are no longer in alignment with it, you will miss out. When it comes to love, people get disappointed when their dates don't meet their expectations and they don't see evidence that true love is coming. Out of disappointment or fear of being disappointed, they give up - never knowing what they missed. The key to the law of attraction is that once you are clear that you desire something specific, you must commit to it for as long as it takes to manifest in your life. If you say, "I'll give it a try" or "I'll give it 3 months," don't waste your time. The Universe does not work like this; pre-deciding how long you will give something, implies doubt and lack of commitment to what you really want. In order to use the law of attraction to attract your perfect partner, you must commit to it for as long as it takes. Ironically, this technique accelerates the process and love will find you before you know it.
The number one reason the law of attraction may appear not to work is that people give up before their wish is granted. It's like ordering a delcious vanilla milk-shake and walking out of the dinner prior to your order arriving. The order is on its way, but if you are no longer in alignment with it, you will miss out. When it comes to love, people get disappointed when their dates don't meet their expectations and they don't see evidence that true love is coming. Out of disappointment or fear of being disappointed, they give up - never knowing what they missed. The key to the law of attraction is that once you are clear that you desire something specific, you must commit to it for as long as it takes to manifest in your life. If you say, "I'll give it a try" or "I'll give it 3 months," don't waste your time. The Universe does not work like this; pre-deciding how long you will give something, implies doubt and lack of commitment to what you really want. In order to use the law of attraction to attract your perfect partner, you must commit to it for as long as it takes. Ironically, this technique accelerates the process and love will find you before you know it.
6. Be in the KNOW
We live in an obliging Universe where it is possible to experience all our dreams and desires. One of the biggest obstacles in manifeting what we desire is doubt. We want something but we have doubt that it is possible. It is actually the doubt that keeps it from coming. When you are in alignment with attracting your perfect mate, there is a sense of KNOWING that he or she is on their way. That knowing is a positve energy and opens the door for attraction. Doubt is a negative energy and closes that same door. You might be thinking, "well, how do I know?" This is the conuldrum – you know because you choose it. It is the act of choosing something and knowing that what you choose is "already done," that activates the law of attraction; what you KNOW to be true, must become true. There is not some outside deciding force. There is only you choosing what you desire and aligning with it through knowing that it is already so.
We live in an obliging Universe where it is possible to experience all our dreams and desires. One of the biggest obstacles in manifeting what we desire is doubt. We want something but we have doubt that it is possible. It is actually the doubt that keeps it from coming. When you are in alignment with attracting your perfect mate, there is a sense of KNOWING that he or she is on their way. That knowing is a positve energy and opens the door for attraction. Doubt is a negative energy and closes that same door. You might be thinking, "well, how do I know?" This is the conuldrum – you know because you choose it. It is the act of choosing something and knowing that what you choose is "already done," that activates the law of attraction; what you KNOW to be true, must become true. There is not some outside deciding force. There is only you choosing what you desire and aligning with it through knowing that it is already so.
7. Enjoy Yourself Now
Live your life out loud. Don't wait for love to find you in order to start living. You will attract what you are and if you are a couch potato, you will attract a coach potato. If you desire a mate who is active, goes skiing and likes to read, you better start jogging, get on the slopes and hang out in Barnes & Noble. Don't wait for him or her to arrive in order to live your best life. Start living your best life right now and you will become super attractive so that special person will be able to spot you in a crowd - because you shine.
Live your life out loud. Don't wait for love to find you in order to start living. You will attract what you are and if you are a couch potato, you will attract a coach potato. If you desire a mate who is active, goes skiing and likes to read, you better start jogging, get on the slopes and hang out in Barnes & Noble. Don't wait for him or her to arrive in order to live your best life. Start living your best life right now and you will become super attractive so that special person will be able to spot you in a crowd - because you shine.
8. Become The Future You
There is a current "single you" and a future partnered or married you. One of the best ways to use the law of attraction to attract your perfect guy or girl is to become the person who is already in the relationship. This is how it works: think of yourself now and think of yourself in your perfect relationship. How are you different? Who do you become once you are in the relationship? Maybe your answer is, "I become relaxed, confident, loving and kind." Your answer is your clue to who you must become now. Don't wait for the relationship to manifest, you must first become the person who already has these qualities. Become relaxed,confident, loving and kind now and you will align with the relationship you most desire. This also includes preparing your space for the partner of your dreams; clean out your closet, empty a draw or replace that worn-out wallpaper, for example. Think of all the ways, you can prepare yourself and your life to be in perfect alignment with your perfect mate and as you do, you will also become the person of your partner's dreams.
There is a current "single you" and a future partnered or married you. One of the best ways to use the law of attraction to attract your perfect guy or girl is to become the person who is already in the relationship. This is how it works: think of yourself now and think of yourself in your perfect relationship. How are you different? Who do you become once you are in the relationship? Maybe your answer is, "I become relaxed, confident, loving and kind." Your answer is your clue to who you must become now. Don't wait for the relationship to manifest, you must first become the person who already has these qualities. Become relaxed,confident, loving and kind now and you will align with the relationship you most desire. This also includes preparing your space for the partner of your dreams; clean out your closet, empty a draw or replace that worn-out wallpaper, for example. Think of all the ways, you can prepare yourself and your life to be in perfect alignment with your perfect mate and as you do, you will also become the person of your partner's dreams.
9. Get Your Beliefs In Order
Examine your beliefs about love and clean up any and all beliefs that don't support attracting, having and keeping your perfect relationship. Beliefs such as, "I'll never meet a man/woman at my age." "I'm not attractive enough." "I don't make enough money." "All the good ones are taken." The Universe has a way of making your beliefs true so if a belief doesn't support what you really want, it is time to drop it and develop beliefs that do. If you have any beliefs that you are not worthy, it is like a big stop sign to the Universe. It is not the Universe that is deciding your worth. In fact, to the Universe you are unconditionally worthy right now. The Universe does, however, respond to your feelings about yourself; if you are feeling unworthy or undeserving, the Universe reflects this back. Because unworthiness is a negative vibration and therefore repels that which you desire, the Universe cannot deliver. The truth is, you are intrinsically worthy and the belief that you can be unworthy is an illusion; do whatever it takes to dispel this illusion and be free to have what you really want. For more on healing worthiness issues, go tohttp://www.nanice.com/article/100/Are-You-Worthy/
Examine your beliefs about love and clean up any and all beliefs that don't support attracting, having and keeping your perfect relationship. Beliefs such as, "I'll never meet a man/woman at my age." "I'm not attractive enough." "I don't make enough money." "All the good ones are taken." The Universe has a way of making your beliefs true so if a belief doesn't support what you really want, it is time to drop it and develop beliefs that do. If you have any beliefs that you are not worthy, it is like a big stop sign to the Universe. It is not the Universe that is deciding your worth. In fact, to the Universe you are unconditionally worthy right now. The Universe does, however, respond to your feelings about yourself; if you are feeling unworthy or undeserving, the Universe reflects this back. Because unworthiness is a negative vibration and therefore repels that which you desire, the Universe cannot deliver. The truth is, you are intrinsically worthy and the belief that you can be unworthy is an illusion; do whatever it takes to dispel this illusion and be free to have what you really want. For more on healing worthiness issues, go tohttp://www.nanice.com/article/100/Are-You-Worthy/
10. Drop The How
Your job is to clearly and positively define what you most desire, and to get in alignment with your desire through all the ways described above. Your job is not the how. Don't get caught up on how it's going to happen. We live in a magical Universe that can bring you exactly what you desire in the most amazing and even unbelievable ways. Getting caught up in the how can actually impede the law of attraction. If you are trying to control the how, you are likely getting in the way and making it more difficult than it has to be. Instead, let go of any ideas about how it has to happen and allow the universe to do her magic. This doesn't mean that you sit home and do nothing. On the contrary, but the difference is that you await inspired action. Inspired action is that sudden feeling that you should go the coffee shop even if you are not thirsty or you should get gas on the other side of the street. The law of attraction communicates to you through your intuition so make sure you are listening and following those gut feelings. Most of all, be open to all possibilities - you never know how the Universe will deliver.
Your job is to clearly and positively define what you most desire, and to get in alignment with your desire through all the ways described above. Your job is not the how. Don't get caught up on how it's going to happen. We live in a magical Universe that can bring you exactly what you desire in the most amazing and even unbelievable ways. Getting caught up in the how can actually impede the law of attraction. If you are trying to control the how, you are likely getting in the way and making it more difficult than it has to be. Instead, let go of any ideas about how it has to happen and allow the universe to do her magic. This doesn't mean that you sit home and do nothing. On the contrary, but the difference is that you await inspired action. Inspired action is that sudden feeling that you should go the coffee shop even if you are not thirsty or you should get gas on the other side of the street. The law of attraction communicates to you through your intuition so make sure you are listening and following those gut feelings. Most of all, be open to all possibilities - you never know how the Universe will deliver.
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