Sexy DIY: The 3 Best Masturbation Techniques For Women

Who needs a man, anyway?

Masturbating should always be a fun and pleasurable experience, ending in a body-shaking, quivering goodness. That's why I want to give you these four incredible techniques from The Bad Girl's Bible on how to bring yourself to orgasm. Now some of these techniques may be a bit extreme for you, but I really hope that you will at least try them once.

But before you you even try one of these masturbation techniques, you'll want to set the mood for sensuality by stimulating your senses.


Setting The Mood - First, you need to choose a nice scent for your room from perfumes to deodorants or incense. The choice is ultimately up to you. You then need to set up the lighting in the room. You may prefer it to be very dark or you may like having the lights only slightly dimmed to be best.

Next, eat or drink an aphrodisiac. Nibble on some dark chocolate, sip on champagne or bite into a few juicy strawberries — anything that entices your tastebuds. Turn up some music to add to the experience, whether it's some jazzy tunes or a quiet instrumental soundtrack — whatever you choose needs to relax you. Lastly — and most importantly — you need to think about touch and what you feels good on your skin, besides your own hands. (Think a silky smooth nightie.)

The final thing for setting the mood is thinking about what positions are going to work best for masturbating. Lying on your back is the obvious choice, but there are hundreds of others. In fact, you'll find over 100 different positions (with professional photographs) on the Bad Girl's Bible.

The "Barely There" Technique - This is by far the simplest technique — and it's all in the flick of a finger. To get set up, you need to lie down on your back and get comfortable. You are going to be masturbating by rubbing your clitoris with just your finger.

The trick in this technique is in its subtlety. Rather than just touching it, pressing it and rubbing it, you are going to be making only the slightest amount of contact with your clitoris. It should be a feather-like touch, moving your finger from side to side. So you won't be touching all of your clitoris — just the smallest tip.


This next part is important. While rubbing this small part of your clitoris, move your finger only very slightly. You should hardly move it at all, like you are vibrating your finger instead of moving it up and down. To really get the most out of this technique, you need to continuously do it for about 15 minutes, which can obviously get tiring but is oh-so worth it. This technique will put you on the edge of orgasm the entire time you're performing it. It will feel like one continuous orgasm, without the usual peaks and troughs.

More Masturbation Techniques Like "Barely There" - If you want to learn my more explicit and 'out there' techniques similar to this one, then you'll find them on the Bad Girl's Bible site.


The "Round And Around" Technique - The round and around technique is great for arousing yourself and ultimately making your orgasm more powerful when you eventually peak. This is because it's sort of like foreplay for masturbation — teasing and turning yourself on, without ever directly masturbating yourself. As you can probably guess from the name, you are going to be focusing on your more sensitive areas. These are places like your breasts and inner thighs. However, because everyone's body is different, you may find that the small of your neck or the inside of your elbows are particularly sensitive to touch.

After 20 minutes of this, it's time to move your hands to your more erogenous areas. Still teasing, toughen the touch to caress your nipples and breasts. Tantalize yourself for what's about to happen next.


The "Put On A Show" Technique - This last masturbation technique is one for your partner's pleasure as well as yours. You probably already know that guys are primarily turned on by visual cues (and why they love pornography, after all). So why not use this fact to your advantage and put on a show for your man?
The easiest way to do this is during foreplay with your man. Ask him if he would like a demonstration of what you enjoy the most. He is very unlikely to say no! Now just because you are putting on a show, it doesn't necessarily mean that you have to be dramatic. Don't feel like you have to talk dirty or even moan and groan while masturbating in front of him. Just focus on enjoying yourself. Trust us when we say, it will be enough to drive him crazy.

More Powerful Masturbation Techniques - The techniques you have just read are some of my more basic ones, if you want to learn my more advanced techniques, along with over 100 sex positions (with professional pictures) as well as how to talk dirty and give an awesome blowjob, then you'll find them on the Bad Girl's Bible site as well as my free newsletter.